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Meher Bokhari urges parents to educate sons on puberty, consent, and boundaries

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Pakistani celebrities have come out in support of news anchor Meher Bokhari after she urged parents to teach their sons the difference between right and wrong, emphasizing that conversations about puberty, sexual activity, and urges should not be treated as taboo subjects.

Bokhari shared a video on Instagram in which she criticized a culture that normalizes rape and murder in Pakistan, arguing that parents frequently avoid discussing sexuality, puberty, and desires with their children.

She acknowledged that parents cannot be held entirely responsible for their children’s actions, but maintained that they nevertheless have a duty to teach them how to distinguish right from wrong and to “absorb better things.”

“A few years back, a girl in a posh school went to use the bathroom. The seniors gave the maid in the bathroom money and refused anyone from entering for one hour while they raped her. Posh school, educated people, right?” she said, recalling the alleged incident in Lahore.

She went on to reference other cases, stating, “Then you heard about the case of Aizal Ali, the 17-year-old cousin who raped her and her mom found out after seeing blood in her diaper. And now Ayat Noor, a five-year-old who was killed.”

Bokhari noted that some alleged perpetrators in such cases are under the age of 18, raising important questions about how children are raised and what they are taught about consent, boundaries, and sexual behavior within the home.

“All rapists and murderers under 18, we have to be doing something wrong, right? If you think that your kid is not seeing hardcore porn and is respectful, please understand if he is going through puberty and has access to social media. Boys have urges and don’t know what to do with their whims, fantasies, desires and wants,” she said.

She argued that parents often avoid such conversations because they consider discussions about sexual urges to be inappropriate or embarrassing.

“But we don’t speak to them because we are ashamed of teaching right or wrong. We think the Quran teacher can teach them about Islam but speaking on the topic of desires is taboo. We don’t want to tell them that once they reach an age, they will want something. Are we really raising respectful men or rapists and murderers? Will our boys be able to live amongst other girls?” she questioned.

In the caption accompanying her video, Bokhari further urged parents and society to challenge harmful messages, establish clear boundaries, and remain actively engaged with the content that children consume.

She wrote that boys should be taught “clearly and consistently” that women are human beings whose autonomy, dignity, and safety must be respected at all times.

Several Pakistani celebrities also expressed their support for her message. Imran Abbas, Tauseeq Haider, and Amar Khan were among those who praised her remarks and called for greater attention to the issue.

Actor Bilal Abbas Khan shared the video on his Instagram Story, writing, “YES!!! Every single word!”

Other social media users also echoed Bokhari’s call for greater education around the subject, with one commentator writing that “sex education needs to be taught in every educational institute.”

Another user thanked Bokhari for raising the subject, writing, “Thank you for educating the people of Pakistan. I don’t know when we are going to discuss such things with our children when we still consider such a thing as a TABOO!”

Bokhari’s remarks have since prompted a broader online discussion about how parents can approach conversations with children regarding puberty, consent, boundaries, and appropriate behavior.

While she acknowledged that parents cannot be solely responsible for their children’s actions, she argued that avoiding difficult conversations can leave children without adequate guidance as they navigate these complex issues.

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Omair Rana Opens Up About Pakistanis’ Obsession With Shaadi Without Training

Omair Rana is a versatile and talented Pakistani television and film actor, best known for his top-notch portrayal of negative characters. He began his showbiz career as a theatre actor and director. His notable dramas include Piya Bedardi, Ullu Baraey Farokht Nahi, Pyar Ke Sadqay, Zan Mureed, Dil Na Umeed To Nahi, Sang-e-Mar Mar, Hum Kahan Ke Sachay Thay, Sang-e-Mah, and Ishq Murshid. Omair Rana is happily married to Maira Omair and has an adorable family of four.

Recently, Omair Rana appeared on Good Morning Pakistan, hosted by Nida Yasir. In the show, he talked about Pakistani society’s obsession with shaadi without mentally preparing the two individuals for future circumstances.

Talking about it, Omair Rana said, “My issue is this, that due to the social pressure, the sole purpose of our people is to get married. For example, see our dramas; all the stories revolve around marriage, and it has become the purpose of life. But no one teaches its course. There is no lesson, no literature regarding the subject of marriage. They are not taught about responsibilities. The center of attention for a woman after marriage is to become a mother because her existence will be worthless without becoming a mother. Yes, she doesn’t know anything about motherhood or how to do a child’s upbringing. They just receive congratulations and then go into the race of becoming a mother for the second time. It’s like we do in the corporate sector; we don’t make an incompetent person a supervisor. Imagine a human child who has to serve society in the future being in the hands of two individuals who aren’t trained. We don’t talk about it because we think we know enough and we think we raised them right. Two individuals should accept that perfection doesn’t exist. My ideology has changed after becoming a parent. While choosing partners, see him/her as the parent of your future kids. Don’t run after butterflies; give time to each other.” 

 

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Faryal Gohar Not Recognizing Saba Faisal Triggers Reactions

Saba Faisal is a prominent Pakistani television actress who has delivered memorable performances in major hit dramas, including Humsafar, Pyarey Afzal, Ishq Tamasha, Bandhay Ek Dori Se, Ghisi Piti Mohabbat, Khaie, Baby Baji, and Chand Tara. Beyond her screen presence, she is widely recognized for her controversial, bold, and regressive public statements, often openly supporting patriarchal norms and male dominance. She recently defended Jamal Shah amid his domestic violence dispute with Faryal Gohar, sparking intense online debate from fans who accused her of always taking the wrong side.

When host Hina Salman brought up these public reactions during a recent interview with Faryal Gohar and asked for her take on the actresses who spoke against her, Faryal Gohar simply responded that she does not even know who Saba Faisal is.

Faryal Gohar said, “I don’t even recall her, how she looked, okay, like Saba Faisal. I don’t know who she is. I don’t even watch television. Is she an actor? I think she may have played a small role somewhere. Yes, I do know about Saba Hameed. I know her very well, knew her because her father was a member of the progressive school of journalism. I met her at the Youm-e-Shuhada event of 6 September. She was one of the guests at GHQ, and I was hosting the event. Otherwise, I have nothing to do with TV personalities.”

She further added, “Saba Faisal might have been a wonderful person, but she doesn’t know her and doesn’t also want to condemn her; it’s just that she doesn’t watch TV.”

This triggered a wave of social media reactions with one social media user wrote, “She has done the complete justice with Saba Faisal” Saba Faisal’s daughter Sadia couldn’t believe that she has refused to recognize Saba , Sadia shared laughing emojis on the interview clip. While many others said they have been watching Saba Faisal since long and that it’s Faryal Gohar who rarely appears on television. Saba Faisal’s son also reacted, “Now people will know you”. A social media user wrote, “Now Saba will definitely react”

Saba said that it was upsetting for her that Faryal came up with such allegations. She added, “I had always liked Faryal Gohar, but I didn’t understand her putting up allegations against her ex-husband, and previously, she didn’t even say anything in the same show. I don’t think so it damaged Jamal Shah. Yes, it would have created issues in her personal life.” 

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Anoushey Ashraf on the fatigue of having her ‘Muslimness’ questioned

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Anoushey Ashraf has gotten real about the relentless scrutiny Muslim women face for simply existing — down to the most routine choices in their everyday lives.

The television host made the admission in a candid Instagram photo dump, opening with a pointed question to her followers: “Hello, fellow Muslim liberal girl. Can we talk about some of the things that exhaust me?” She went on in her caption: “Currently (90% of the time) being audited by both sides. Surely I can’t be the only one going through this?”

The post featured glimpses of her outfits alongside the questions and criticism she said she encountered — from whether she ate halal and why she kept dogs to whether she prayed. The central message was clear: “Too Muslim for some. Not Muslim enough for others.”

“Having to prove my Muslimness to the very Muslim Muslims and my lack thereof to the non-Muslims. Having to explain my faith to some and my outfits to others. A skirt? Radical for some. Regular praying? Radical for others,” she wrote.

Anoushey then summed up the contradiction with a touch of humour: “Meanwhile, I’m just trying to hug a dog.” “And honestly? Can a woman just be a woman without everyone conducting an audit?” she questioned.

She concluded the post by addressing those trying to categorise her faith: “To everyone trying to figure out what kind of Muslim I am: Perfectly Muslim enough for me.”

Anoushey also asked her followers, “How’s everyone else surviving the Muslimness audit?”

Her post resonated with many followers and fellow celebrities, with stars including Syra Yousuf showing their support in the comments.

Others described the message as relatable and joined the conversation about navigating faith, identity and personal choices.

Several fans also reflected on the idea of being a “liberal Muslim” and the pressure to fit neatly into religious labels. “Girl, you’re authentic and true to yourself. This is why they’re confused!” one follower wrote.

Another questioned the need for such labels, commenting, “Why is there even a need to label someone as ‘liberal Muslim’ or ‘conservative Muslim’ when Allah has not defined us by these labels?”

Others emphasised the personal nature of faith, arguing that a person’s relationship with religion is ultimately between them and their Creator.

“Only between you and your God,” one person wrote, while another said, “I strongly believe that religion is something very personal.” Another follower simply added, “People need to calm down and let women live.”

Anoushey’s post has sparked a wider conversation about the expectations placed on Muslim women and the tendency to judge their faith based on their appearance, lifestyle or personal choices. At its heart, her message was about having the freedom to navigate faith in a way that feels authentic without constantly having to prove where she stands.

Read more: Anoushey Ashraf Remembers Salman Khan’s Warm Gesture Towards Pakistani Journalists

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