Veteran actor Mehmood Aslam recently appeared on the chat show Gup Shab, where he shared his candid views on love and relationships.
He stated that people can fall in love multiple times and admitted that he had experienced this himself. He elaborated, "When you're fifteen or sixteen, you basically just have crushes. You're not in love."
Aslam personally rejects the idea of "ishq" as an all-consuming force. He explained, "It's not love, it's attachment." He supported his claim by saying, "If you stay away from someone for six months—even your children or siblings—the attachment starts to fade. The more time you spend with someone, the stronger the attachment grows."
The Bulbulay actor also made a surprising revelation about his personal life. He disclosed, "I married twice, and both times for love." Unlike many in the industry who avoid discussing their private lives, Aslam openly shared that both his marriages were love marriages. His second wife, actor Amber Nosheen, has made a name for herself in the industry, and the couple has two daughters.
Aslam has frequently spoken about the challenges plaguing Pakistan’s entertainment industry. In an interview last year, he pointed out that a shortage of writers, actors, and directors—combined with tight deadlines—has negatively impacted the quality of TV dramas. He noted that only about ten to twelve TV stars bear the bulk of the industry's workload, often rushing from one set to another without enough time to focus on their roles. Reflecting on the past, he recalled how writers once had more time to develop scripts, contrasting it with today’s fast-paced production environment.
Beyond his acting career, Aslam has voiced concerns about Pakistan’s future. In an emotional interview with Adnan Faisal last year, he expressed disappointment over the country’s current state. "We keep boasting about Pakistan, but if you look at its position right now, what exactly are we celebrating? Look at your passport. Wherever you go, they push you to the back and treat you horribly," he lamented. He recalled a time when Pakistan commanded greater respect, highlighting the stark contrast with today’s reality. Despite having the resources to move abroad, Aslam has chosen to stay in Pakistan, emphasizing, "This is my country, my land. This is where my roots are."
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